Married people: yall still having good sex?

Question

Is it bad enough to really make you examine your marriage? 
My marriage is okay. We get along well. But I've always been very sexual and have always had a larger sexual appetite than my peers. 
Since getting married our sex life has gotten awful. We are never in the mood at the same time. He hasn't indicated in years. I almost always have to go down on him to get him in the mood. He is only 30 years old.
I've talked to him about it and he doesn't think there is an issue. He just says we are busy. We only have 1 kid. He only works 40 hrs a week and I stay home with our child. We aren't too busy to have a good fuck... sorry for the language but I'm just pent up about the whole thing. I guess I'm just wondering if the sex part is an issue for other woman or if it's just me

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This definitely sounds like something is up, either emotionally or physically. But unfortunately, unless he decides on what to do about it there's not much you can change.

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All marriages have ups and downs. My recommendation would be to take some of the pressure off by not counting the "days since..."
40 hours can leave him exhausted. And being home can leave you with built up energy. So you're wrapping up each day on different wave lengths.
Do you have a vacation planned??
It works wonders to get everyone on the same page!

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He can be exhausted from working 40 hours.
I know that I would be because I'm exhausted working less.
It's worth looking into how you guys can solve this. It's okay to not be happy with how things are, but be careful you don't go in and tell what he can and cannot feel. It won't leave him wanting you more.

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It’s definitely not bad for us but it’s difficult to have sex right now that isn’t in a rush, which is annoying since I’m a pretty sexual person. We have a 6 month old so we haven’t found our groove yet but there’s definitely good times and mostly quickie times lol. Communication is what’s getting us through!

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My husband and I don’t have sex as often after having our daughter 1.5 years ago, just because it’s harder with bed time and stuff. But we still do pretty frequently for as busy as we are. He works 50-60 hours a week and always wants it when the baby goes to bed. We started dating in high school so we definitely can’t compare those days to the days now, but I’d say, for a married couple with very busy lives, and a toddler, we still do it quite frequently. I would sit down and talk to your husband about what he wants in the bedroom and what you can do to get his attention. If he doesn’t have an answer for you, then there’s deeper issues.

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I been married 6 years our sex life is great before I got pregnant. Now 8 weeks I just feel shitty so we have sex maybe weekly or every 10 days. But before pregnancy maybe every other day or at least 3-4 times a week.

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We have a 4 month old that wants to be in bed with us... And we just don't have time for day time nookie since he works 9-7pm... But I mean, I've lost my willingness since the baby... I'm just exhausted with being up constantly at night and caring for her, the animals and the house 🤷
We still love each other and sex has just never been a priority for us so it doesn't bother us if we are getting it or not.

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We have 2 kids and we both work so it’s harder to find the time and energy. We try to schedule sex since we had our second. We aim for once a week minus my period week because I don’t like that. Sometimes we succeed, sometimes we fail.

Married people: yall still having good sex?

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