Hello! Husband & I been married for 3 years. We had several issues these past few months so a few weeks ago he decided to tell me he was going to move out 100%. I did not want to fight with him about this because I felt if I did then I was begging him (I guess.. ego issues) Also, he had blocked me on social media so i’m still upset about this so I was ready to give up. Anyway, when this happened I decided to tell my family, I did not go into details with them because I believed they would of gave me a biased opinion. So the date that he had set to move out was March 21st and he is currently still in the house. I’ve asked several times when is he leaving because I feel like i’m being playing emotionally. Today, as soon as we woke up to do our daily things he had asked me if he could stay (im guessing financially reasons) but not actually be in a relationship. He had told me he left the marriage emotionally (he does love me still—just not in a husband/wife kind of love I guess). I have read online that issues like these happened with married couples but at the same time i’m in a very uncomfortable tight situation. He has asked this from me and I want to be considerate of him but I do love him as my husband still so I think it would be difficult for me. Also, these past few days have been great he has shown me affection & no fights at all but today he just comes and tells me this so there goes my emotions again. I feel down but I want to get him to fall in love with me again (I have been very careless of how I look - i’ve gained about 40lbs- & my actions are very angry -im constantly stressing-) so I want to remind him of who I am & that girl he met that was always taking care of herself & on her shit but I’m in a dilemma of actually doing this or letting him go because I feel like I’m just letting him walk all over me but then again he is my husband & this is the person I had chosen for me. I have two sides I could go. One decision and i’m really scared of taking the wrong one. My heart desires to be with him but he is not emotionally there.. so I need to decide. Please can someone give me a unbiased opinion. Thank you!