Is this normal behavior?

My husband shuts down and doesn't allow me to do what I need to do in order for our baby to have everything we need. I told him I probably wouldnt get a lot done with the rest of the house since I wanted to focus on the nursery so it won't be full of stuff prior to getting it ready. He flipped out acting like I don't do squat for him. I make him lunch and dinner most nights, as well as wipe the counters clean and consistently clean up the house. Yet I don't do anything??? I'm sorry!! I physically can't bend over to get the clean laundry out of the hamper or take the dishes out of the dishwasher. This whole week everything has been about him. He never cares. He hasn't cared since there was two lines on the test. This whole if you want me to want our baby you have to do this for or with me act is getting rediculous!! I'm dead tired just because I'm so busy picking up after a grown adult I can't do anything else for myself or our baby.