Overwhelemed

I feel like I am lacking overall.

- in providing skin to skin (done it three times and baby is 16 days old).

- in providing tummy time

- in spending time with him (it’s feed, sleep, diaper, and repeat).

I don’t know how others are doing but I try my best to give skin to skin during feeds.

And tummy time during the day. But it’s not consistent.

Part of my problem is being a planner and being OCD. I feel like I am not putting him on a schedule. Although my husband has reiterated this multiple times, you can’t put a newborn on a schedule, we follow his schedule.

Hell? Advice?