PLEASE!!! I NEED ADVICE!!!!

Allie💕 • Open to new friends while returning support. I have one Daughter💝and two Angel Babies💕With my Rainbow Boy on Board💙I hope we all have a smooth recovery with PLENTY of Baby Dust✨
I'm going crazy! I just had my 8week ultrasound earlier today, I was told my baby has no heartbeat and to schedule a D&C!! I just miscarried in September and now to have to go through this is unbearable!!! I just can't!! I've been crying all day I can't take it... My mom told me to go to the ER at a different hospital and get a second opinion.. I'm getting dressed now abou to to go! My SO thinks I should wait but I cant! I just can't sit here for another week and wait for something to happen!! Please!! Give some ADVICE!