Bachelorette party

So my fiancé and his groomsman are going to be going to Florida for a golf trip for the bachelor party… there’s no date planned yet but they have all the details figured out, and plan on going some time in the summer/fall because we are getting married in February

No one has planned my bachelorette party yet or even talked to me about it… none of my girls have asked what I want to do or told me any ideas of what they want to do

I’ve asked them what we should do for the party to try to get some ideas and they just don’t really seem to care about it at all

My sister is my maid of honor and then I have my twin, my fiancés 2 sisters, and my childhood best friend as my bridesmaids and I just didn’t expect them to not plan anything or not really care

My brother and brother in law are party of my fiancé’s groomsman and they were literally asking him questions and figuring out details of the party the same day they were asked to be groomsman

I know there’s still a ways to go before we get married.. I just wish they would at least act like they are looking forward to it :(