Okie ladies. This is my first baby. All events my husband and I have had including wedding, game nights, bday events for us have been lidless events. I’m the past our house has not been set up for anyone else’s kids so we’ve always said adults only. Plus I wouldn’t like someone’s kid spilling juice,coloring on my walls etc in my house. When planning the baby shower please no I am not trying to be rude but just because I’m bringing a baby into the world doesn’t mean I want your kid running around my shower. What are your honest thoughts?