Children of divorced parents: how do you feel?

My parents are still together. I'm in a very complicated marriage and I'm the only one willing to work on it. We have a 1 year old. I'm not sure how I feel about moving forward at this point. I'm curious to know - those of you who grew up with parents who divorced: do you resent them for getting divorced? Would you have resented them if they stayed together? Everyone says that kids don't want their parents to stay together if they aren't happy, but everyone who I've talked to whose parents have divorced has lamented that they did so. I know it's complicated. I'm not judging you either way. If you resent them for not staying together or if you are happy they split. I'm just curious.

Thanks for responding!