For basically telling my husband F his brother and his mother. I told him I would not invite them to anything else (bdays holiday etc) either. They make no effort to see or be apart of our kids lives. His brother lives 15 min from us and has only seen our 5 year a couple times and our 16 month old never. Yet they go golfing every weekend together 🙄 His mom sucks too. She rarely sees them and makes no effort to come see them (2 hrs away now). I have stopped by her house several times with the oldest for her to see. She's only seen the 16 m old once. We celebrated their bdays a few min away from her and she had excuses for all holidays/events. She says she would come any weekend we wanted so she can spend time with the kids & let us have a date night and that hasn't happened either. I'm just over them all and not deal with them anymore whatsoever and really don't want his mom to ever try to come over again come future holidays/bdays when she feels like showing up