How to lighten anal area

I’ve always had a dark anus area and my vagina is dark too. I’m very white and I feel like I look grossly dirty even when I’m clean. It’s darker than anyone else’s I’ve ever seen. As I have had kids it’s gotten way darker. I just hate it. If you were me you’d be looking into bleaching it or something, it’s really that bad.

Anyone try anything that works to lighten it?

Creams? Anything?