Fight with boyfriend

Ok my bf and I are being kinda cold to each other rn.

We both are mid-20s and have been dating for a little over two years now. He’s a great bf and treats me well, and we get along great for the most part. A week ago, we started a video game together and have been having fun remotely since we only see each other on weekends. he’s a huge video game person, im not so much but I enjoy playing here and there.

basically, he works full time from home and im a new nurse so I obviously can’t work from home, so I go to work a few times a week and im also in school for my BSN. basically, he’s been playing the game while he works bc it’s a slow day and he’s at home so he’s able to and then he’s been making all this progress without me. which is fine. but then he’ll be really excited to show me what he’s done and call me straight when I get out of work. like can I just have a second to get settled? I was so exhausted yesterday but still played bc I felt bad he was so excited but I was forcing myself. my period is also late and im having really bad IBS symptoms so I am very nervous and frustrated feeling sick all the time. I told him this and he understands but he’s upset and feels embarrassed that he was so excited when I wasn’t really into it. like it just makes me mad because when i wasn’t working and wasn’t in school I wanted so badly to spend time with him, but he was playing video games with his friends. now I have a lot on my plate he wants to. I wish I could work from home and hopefully one day I will, so that I can do the things I enjoy on the side on a slow day, I wish I had that luxury but I don’t and it sucks.

im also paranoid that im pregnant and all he’s worried about is this game. I just feel so frustrated. I took a test and it was negative but still stressing out badly. Ive been pregnant before and it was a nightmare so I have some trauma with that. I don’t mind playing games with him but I cannot play like how gamers do.. for hours everyday. I need some time for my own interests, especially when I don’t feel well. I feel bad telling him this cuz now he’s upset but am I in the wrong??

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