Toxic mother

Hello everyone

So I’m 23 and pregnant with my rainbow baby. I was kicked out of my moms apartment because her boyfriend threatened my unborn childs life and threw me to the ground at 9 weeks pregnant. In turn they got a trespassing notice from the landlord to throw me out. Now when I let my mom know I would be at her appointment tomorrow morning to get my belongings and my vehicle and she told me I wouldn’t be getting my stuff if her boyfriend was not present. I informed her the police told me since they have documentation and photographs of my belongings in the apartment and said if I have the key to the apartment I could retrieve my items. She went ahead and told me it wasn’t going to happen and she’d take my car where I couldn’t find it. I informed her if she does that it will be reported as stolen and she would be charged with grand theft auto as my car is valued at $28,000. She told me I’d never do that to her and I was being crazy and she refuses to get in the middle of me and her boyfriend. And I told her she made that choice when she had him throw me out, and allowed him to say and do the things he did to me and made the conscientious choice to lay in the same bed as him every night. She has yet to say a thing to me since I told her she made the choice to allow these things to happen. I’m so hurt by all of this. She has always chosen men over her children. She lost custody of both me and my little sister in 2011. And she continues to make the same horrible life choices. My son doesn’t need this in his life. I was hoping she would get better and realize what she’s doing is not ok. But some people never change. I wish she would come around I really do. All I know is my son will NEVER feel the heartache I felt growing, my son will always feel love, my son will ALWAYS come first.

How many of you ladies have toxic parents and how do you overcome the amount of hurt that comes with things like this. I just want a mom and not someone who chooses dick over her children 🥺😭