For the longest time my husband and I have wanted kids and now it seems like he doesn’t want to try and I bring it up and he is like we’re not ready etc , I don’t know what to do and it feels like he drifting away . I’m really at a loss as this is something I’ve wanted my whole life to be a mom and not sure if this will happen now and I’m sad 😞 about it and we will be 30 soon too :(