I'm 20+4 with our first baby, we found out the gender today, ITS A BOY!! I would have really liked a girl but I'm just happy either way along as everythings ok 💙 my partners family are not so pleased (they have a lot of boys their side) and also don't like us carrying on his name to the baby, made me feel a bit sh*tty today after all the excitement, don't know what to think or feel...I can sort of see their point but shouldnt they just be happy either way?!