Let me start with it doesn’t bug me that we don’t have a name for her yet because when my husband I first brought up names we both agreed nothing feels right, and that’d we’d name her when she gets her. The problem is that when our family asks what names we have picked out and we simply say we don’t have any, gasp in shock and try to help (appreciated) but also we don’t want our family to feel like they are the ones who got to name her and hold it over one another (if that makes sense). Is anyone else dealing with this? Also how do you go about it? I’m going insane, with our son it was so easy to pick a name! But with out girl not so much.