After birth visiting

Jessica

I'm getting so pissed off and baby isn't even due for awhile. My husband's parents kinda suck. His Mom doesn't ever check on us or call. She doesn't seem to want to come to the gender reveal or baby shower because people she doesn't like are going to be there. Then my FIL and his wife aren't coming to the gender reveal. My husband said well they will be there when its born. I said no they won't. I'm not having visitors the day the baby is born! I dont want a bunch of fucking people coming and holding my baby the day it comes out of me, especially after all that it takes to even bring a baby into the world. He gets all pissy. Like no! You're not literally having a baby rip out of your vagina, you don't get a say in nothing! I want it to just be me and him. Not to mention the hospital still doesn't allow visits. I feel like people can come visit the baby the 2nd or 3rd day we are home from the hospital. I don't even want to announce the baby is born till I'm ready for visits because I don't want to deal with whiny ass people that think they're entitled to visit just because of who they are to the baby.