Should I move on?

Honest opinions but nothing rude please, well the compost has insects and i just cant im terrified and I guess i exaggerated but cause like when I saw it really spooked me 😪 I wanted him to take it out cause yk he's a man and not really scared of bugs. But he sounds mean and doesnt wanna try and care is this a pretty big red flag? Or an I being sensitive for feeling hurt that he said those😢