I'm pissed off

Sandra
So I joined my husband or of town to his uncle's funeral and I got treated like crap. This was the first time I met his dad's side of the family and they were very rude. They had my husband sitting up front with the family and didn't want me sitting with him so I sassy way in the back with the friends. I think what hurt me the most is that I feel like my husband should have grabbed me and not care what they said. I'm his wife not just a side chick. And when I tell my husband how I feel he gets mad and says he had no control. Am I over reacting?