Would you be honest

I'm questioning sometimes if I should lie to help the feelings of my husband. Do you always tell the truth to your spouse?

Here is what happened.

Husband said I could sleep in then he let the kids come and get me 5 minutes later. I refused to get up for another 30 minutes. The whole day was me doing stuff with my family which I love but that is me catering to them. We went to my side for mother's day and I was the last one to eat as I was dishing everyone up. Then had to hold the 1 year old the entire meal while my husband enjoyed his steak. My gift was sweet a Keychain I love that stuff but he also got me slippers. I have to return now because they don't fit. He was upset. I need slippers as mine are falling apart and we have wood floors and I have nerve damage to my feet. At home I did all the chasing after kids and meal prep for the week and husband sat on phone. We got the children to sleep. Then he proceeded to tell me how he needed 3 days next weekend alone to get yard work done. I reminded him sunday was our sons birthday snd we had a party planned I was doing everything for. He got mad. Then went to bed. I was up one and half hours later still cleaning the kitchen and picking up from the day. My husband then asked me after he had been in bed and on his phone if I felt special today?

I unloaded on how that I don't feel special and all the things he could have been doing if that was his goal.