Hi all,

My husband and I have been married for almost 4 years. We’ve had a real rough patch like I’m sure most marriages have starting in 2020. Trouble conceiving with miscarriages being first of many problems. Second my husband’s mental health spiraled. We were having sex often when trying to conceive and it took a huge dip when my husband started treatment for his depression and anxiety (some of the drugs cause sexual dysfunction). This went on for a close to a year. He’s finally starting to feel more like himself and we’ve been trying to get back into the swing of things. Recently he’s been caught a couple times sending TikTok videos of half naked women and other pictures to his guy friends. When I ask he says its locker room talk. I’m sure other guys do this with their friends but it’s kinda annoying when he has been “turned off” and whatnot. Also seems like he really doesn’t care if I’m aware. Anyone else have this issue? I really don’t feel the need to do any of this stuff myself, like look at videos of hot guys with my friends. Even with rough patches I feel very satisfied in my relationship. Somehow all this feels like I’m not satisfying him enough. Is this a common thing? Am I crazy for feeling really insecure?