How to stay wet???

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I'm not like any other girl I guess you could say. I never really get wet when I'm in the mood to have sex. It's hard for me to stay wet during sex. I have always used my saliva to stay wet down there. But it never seems to work. Everytime my bf pulls out and puts it back in, I'm dry... And it's really embarrassing for me even though he understands I still hate it. I don't ever do foreplay which I know could help but please don't tell me to. Everyone does/ has sex differently. Lol. I never used lube.. Would water work? I feel like it would be weird to like use a water bottle, wet my hand, and then rub it down there.. I don't know.. But how I can stay wet the whole time or atleast most of the time while having sex?? Because using my saliva doesn't work.. It dries very quickly. I could play with myself but I never do before hand because it takes me forever to get wet. I honestly like jumping right to sex... I know sometimes people might think how can you be in the mood if your not wet? I'm not sure.. lol but I always been like this. So please, what can I use/ do to get wet fast and stay wet?? I don't like getting fingered before hand even in dry.. In fact I hate being touched down there at all when I'm dry.. It just doesn't seem right.. Ughhh :(

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Lube, you'll love it when you take the plunge

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You're working yourself up, you can use lube however your best bet if you don't want to use it is to probably have him go down on you or stimulate you over your knickers or trousers if you don't like him touching you, stimulating the vagina should help a lot, but don't panic because the more you think about it the harder it is, so stop panicking everyone is different you may just need to find out what your body likes that makes you feel stimulated and wet:)

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Don't use water. Use lube if anything.

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Lube or coconut oil works well for me.

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Water will make it worse.  Use lube or coconut oil or olive oil.  If you use an oil though,  be prepared to wash your sheets and make sure it's %100 pure oil without any additives.  I'm a really wet woman naturally and I ALWAYS use lube after my period because tampons dry things up.  There's no shame in using it; most women do!

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If you're ttc or not preseed is definitely the best lube I've found

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Try to relax down there and just feel the movement of your man. I noticed when I'm tense my by won't release any wetness and sex tends to hurt more too. I've been practicing how to relax and just go with the flow and it's been nice so far.

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Water will actually have the opposite affect. Honestly try a water based lube from the supermarket/chemist hun it won't dry you out keep you wet and slippery the whole time. Also i suggest getting your hormones checked, are you on any birth control? Depo provera shot perhaps? Anything with progesterone in it can cause you not to make enough cervical mucous, but you could naturally have an imbalance that neds fixing. Not producing enough cervical mucous is a problem if you ever intend to try to conceive some day but also just for your reproductive health in general. Good luck hun.

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Water washes away ANY of your natural wetness so it could make the problem worse. Lube!!!

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Use lube. It sounds like you already know what to do to help yourself get/stay wet.