I know a lot of us ladies have went through heartbreaks in life with someone we didn’t want to let go. I finally let go of my kids father of 4 years whos controlled me, manipulated me, cheated on me numerous times and accused me of alot of things that never happened. he destroyed me mentally and emotionally and I definitely have some healing to do.. how did any of you ladies start? i’m a wreck and I can’t bring myself to talk or date anyone until I begin the process…