am i overthinking

i have been on and off with my best friend since middle school. ( we had a friend group now it’s just us kinda thing lol)

3 years ago we became friends again and we got really close but it was like a party phase. She stayed with me for a little and she wore all of my clothes (I also let her and would let any of my friends back then but idk i never wore hers that much lol) anyways she would take pics and her sister would comment “this doesn’t even look like you” bc she would be in my clothes , full makeup , eatings, posed lol

(she is kinda tom boyish and i was like an insta thot in hs lol not fr i just liked taking pictures and had a following back then )

we stopped being friends and became friend again in like 2021 when I was pregnant. She got pregnant also when i was 8 mo with a toxic guy and i kept telling her to be safe about it months prior after she kept making jokes about it

she’s a single mom and he hasn’t changed!

a friend from the group hmu randomly trying to become a friend again and said something she could see the envy in my best friends comment and she’s always been envious.

the comment was on a ig pic. cute selfie in kitchen she said i had nice lights or something

ive slowly been peeping or maybe paranoid idk it’s why i’m asking y’all about this but she has moved right next to my apartments and I just got a lamp a week ago and tonight she night the same one but she didn’t say anything about my lamp being cute or she was getting it lol just sent a pic of it in her living room

i keep seeing tiktoks saying “she wasn’t my friend she wanted to be me” and like am i overthinking it LOL HELP

OH main part in hs (firstly my mom is toxic no contact now lol) we threw a party at my house . stuff was stolen and my mom SMACKED her in in her face. she never told n continued to be my friend and even forgave my mom and called her mom still lol

(i always thought she was a real friend for it but idk now if im paranoid)