MOMS CAN I GET ADVICE PLEASE

Dae’ja

I am 22 and my child’s father is 43. I’m currently 9 months pregnant. Throughout my pregnancy he’s been there I would say but not in certain ways I’d want but I can say I want for nothing when he’s around. He doesn’t 100% think the kid is his I guess which is understandable considering I got pregnant on the first time. It’s a lot behind the situation but long story short I’m pissed & in my feelings right now because a female friend of his asked him to have sex with him. He told me about this willingly.

He said he turned her down because he wanted a female friend & that’s it bc he doesn’t have many women friends. He said the lady just had got out of a relationship & he doesn’t want to be the rebound. So ofc as a girl I’m just in my feelings that she even asked him that but he told me & didn’t have to. So he then told me that she must’ve blocked him because he tried to call her for whatever reason & I guess the call didn’t go through. But his phone rung a few hours ago & I told him she was calling.

He was trying to figure out why I was so upset over a woman who’s a friend and whom he never even touched but I just feel maybe they were talking because what a coincidence you were blocked & I come over & she starts calling. I can be wrong. I usually get myself all worked up but he’s older.

& honestly like why am I crying or even upset. He’s not my man & he’s older 🤷🏽‍♀️ I shouldn’t really care.