manipulation??

This is my husband, actually my soon to be ex husband. I’ve dealt with his narcissistic ways for years and I’ve finally pulled the plug on our marriage. I told him I want a divorce because he has completely and utterly destroyed me in every way possible. He also refuses to be with his kids because “they’re better off without him”. So I told him he needs to see his kids, because even though we’re not together, the kids still love him and want to see him. When I told him that, this is what happened. Is he trying to manipulate me or guilt trip me? I’m starting to feel guilty about doing all of this because I can tell he’s hurt.