What would you do? (Mean neighborhood child)
So, there is the girl in the neighborhood and she shares mutual friends with my girls (we all live on the same street), and she is downright mean and rude to my girls. For context she has threw a ball at my older daughters face, she pushed my youngest off her scooter and took off with it, and she screams at my girls and says rude things to them. They don’t like her, naturally, and I don’t like her either.
And it’s not just my girls either, she does this to all the girls on the street. Her parents are full aware of her behavior, but they don’t care. She disrespects not only the kids, the adults, but everyone’s property as well. My girls get along with all the other girls and have been invited to play. Naturally though, this child is there as well. My girls tend to play with the other girls because of how mean this child is, and they will only go out when the other girls come out.
Now, reminder this child doesn’t like my girls, specifically my oldest because she will call her out for her behavior. She will not come get them to play. She will only go to the other kids house to get them. The kicker is she only wants to get my girls if no one else is around, if they have something she wants, or if one of the other girls is over.
It has gotten to the point where I have to lock my door because she will just make herself welcome if there’s no one else.
Now, I haven’t spoken to the parents because again the issue has been raised, their aware, but they do nothing. She has been sent home because she hit my oldest daughter in the face with a ball on purpose, while playing at the other girls home….the excuse, she had a rough week. Are you kidding me???
And if you stayed this long, the audacity is what got me this weekend. This child had been gone all day until mid afternoon. Comes home and immediately goes to the mutual friends house. Only to find out she was at my house, swimming with my girls. I keep my door closed and locked now and find out from my camera that she and her mom were at my door. Her in a bathing suit.
You’re child doesn’t like my girls, is nasty, and wasn’t even looking for them in the first place….but tries to invite herself to our pool.
I don’t want the other girl to be banned from coming over because I won’t allow the other child. I just don’t know what to do. The parents haven’t done anything in regards as being mean, but they also don’t do anything about her behavior and the last thing I want is a child over who is mean and physically aggressive to my girls at my house. What would you do?
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