asking for my $ back from friend ..

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hey everyone !

i feel like we’ve all be thru this where you let a friend borrow money and they say they’ll pay you back but never do ..

so i let a friend borrow $20 and she said she’d pay me back once her check clears but never did .. it’s just frustrating to me cuz it’s the principle of things .. i feel kind of used and don’t wanna ask for it back but at the end of the day it is my money and next week will make a month since i let her borrow it ..

i’m dreading to have to have the conversation w/ her but i’m not really sure what to say / how to ask for it back .. any tips plz ?