My husband and I have been married for 6 years he’s from the south and I’m from the north we are also two different races. So we come from two very different places… we live down south near his family and they absolutely love me. I can hang out with his mom one on one and they’ve never said a bad word about me. We see my family maybe once or twice a year. Whenever they come here it’s pretty fine… but whenever we go there my husband always says he feels out of place and not included. When we are here I literally go out of my way to talk and include myself in what his family has going on. I feel when we’re up north he chooses to isolate himself he feels everyone doesn’t like him besides for my dad. Every time we visit my home town he’s in a bad mood and we end up fighting. My family notices and makes a comment about how I make my life look perfect on social media but every time they get around us we’re fighting. It is frustrating cause I literally only see them a few times a year if that and it’s only for a weekend. I literally live where his family is from and I hate it ….. But yet whenever I make a trip he wants to go usually…so my sister just got married this weekend and I was nervous I kind of already knew how it would be but he said he wanted to be there for me. Everything was fine at the rehearsal dinner cause we could drink. The day of the wedding we had to leave after the wedding to go get our kids because his mom has them all the time when we work so she was doing us an extra favor by letting them spend two nights so in return we agreed to leave after wedding . So an 8 hour drive back home. He told me he was going to leave the reception at 8 so he could go back to the room and rest before we had to leave and told me since I’m in the wedding ( I was the matron of honor) to drink and enjoy my family) so it’s not even a half hour into the reception and he’s seated at the table with the wedding party And I’m doing my toast and I come back to sit next to him and he says he just ordered an Uber and it will be here in 10 minutes I’m like wtf it’s not even 8 yet it was only 7 and he was hardly even there with me. The couples were about to do the slow dance and I told him I had wanted to do it he said no then started walking out of the venue I kept asking him why he was weird all the sudden cause I thought we were having a good time he just kept ignoring me. He knows that pisses me off. Then he said I’m sure you’ll have more fun without me anyway. Then my sisters now husband walks by and looks like wtf ?? And asks him what he’s doing he quickly changes his tone and says he has to rest for the drive. Then he leaves and I text him telling him he was wrong we’re literally here for two days I get he’s tired and has to drive but the comments and how we went about it were uncalled for. He texts me saying he feels uncomfortable and nobody talks to him and I remind him he literally always goes off and does his own thing when we’re at a function to talk to other people and he leaves me with the kids. I never complain. It’s like he’s only happy when we’re in his town or around his people. I adapt for him why can’t he do the same for me. I don’t feel anyone did anything wrong to make him feel that way and every time we go out of town except the very first time he acts funny or gets in a mood wanting to leave. It’s very upsetting. I hate where we live and want to move back but I know he never will.. are we just too different ?? Every other time I let it bother me and show we’re fighting this time I refused because it’s my sisters special day so I had the time of my life and when I came back he didn’t have anything to say then eventually came abround and he acted like it never happened …I’m frustrated…how do I go about this ?