Just generally seeking opinions here on my situation. I want to gain more confidence.

Im 24, cis she/they (am I still cis if im a they too? im bad with the labels apologies) and a virgin, overall kinda annoyed I havent dated anyone yet because it took me a hot minute to come out, and then no time in college, and then a pandemic happened. Im cute though I wanna partner. im not worried about dating itself, but the expectation of sex. would like to eventually have sex, but overall arent really to interested in it.

I find dicks disgusting, so pretty sure that rules out some people, but overall dont feel too worried about gender. Which like, obviously if you like them good for you, I dont want one inside me. anyways lol, excited to be in a relationship (havent been yet) but im more interested in kissing, being close physically, just I dont really want anyone near my vagina at this moment. Is it inexperience? Am I just experiencing low sex drive, im on antidepressants but also havent always been? Maybe I am just demi or on the ace spectrum, idk really? I find labelling myself overall stressful and have just suceded to saying queer.

Does any of this really matter when dating though? Isnt trust about making sure each partner feels comfortable. these dating apps make everyone seem very sexual compared to me, nothing wrong with that, just not how I feel. Like I wish I felt more, I have imagined pleasurable scenes. Am I going to have to be in an open relationship with someone because I dont want to have sex much, and they do or something? what is normal for other people? Can I only date people who also feel similarly about sex, which based on these apps feels limited, but its not like I know what is normal so ya, what yall think 😅