Pet peeves when your partner first moved in?

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I just recently moved in with my partner and I feel like I’m going crazy!!!! Why is it pee constantly on the toilet seat? Why did I buy a 40 pack of gushers and they’re gone in two days???😭😭 and the LAUNDRY….. it’s just horrendous. I find some humor in it, and I wanted to know what were you ladies first peeves about your partner when you guys first moved in??