i’ve never orgasmed 👎

okay so I’ve had 4 different sexual partners all varying in shapes, sizes, length and girth. i even trusted some of them to eat me out…. NONE OF THEM HAVE BEEN ABLE TO MAKE ME ORGASM. like. I get it your a man and you have your needs but what about mine? literally once you finish you barely even try to work on me. there was one guy who felt bad about him finishing and not me so he tried his best but i just felt bad at a certain point and stopped the whole thing. Maybe i’m just not 100% comfortable? i mean foreplay and aftercare are HUGE parts that add on to pleasure so maybe i just need to be more assertive with what i want