upper lip

is anybody else struggling with having hair on their upper lip!? i’ve been dealing with this my whole i have only plucked it and mostly used nair and it keeps growing back fast i wanna cry bc i fold in my lip every time somebody talks to me bc i don’t want them to see see it.. even when i use nair and the hair is gone it’s still a little shadow.. i hate this fr is there anything that y’all use to keep this hair away.