So I (20F) was scrolling through tiktok last night, then started looking through my boyfriend’s (24M). I noticed this one lady (who publicly prides herself as a cougar) kept commenting heart eyes emojis and saying stuff like “i love your face”. He wouldn’t reply to them, but he would like them. So I go onto her tiktok page and start scrolling through. I come across a tiktok that’s a few weeks old, but he had apparently commented “🥵” only FIVE hours ago. It’s late at night, so I screenshot the proof and decide to text him this morning.

I say, “hi baby, could you do me a favor and block/delete this woman? i’m not upset or anything, i just feel uncomfortable with a grown woman commenting flirtatiously multiple times on your posts.” To which he responds, “But did you see me reply?” And all I say is, “Yeah.” At this point I go back on her page and his comment is deleted, figures. He then says “I commented that weeks ago, but okay.”

Like SIR it said you did it 5 hrs ago last night. I’m not upset bc it’s not straight up cheating, but it is being flirtatious so I called him out on it and hopefully we can resolve it.

So my question is, has anyone else gone through this? Were y’all able to resolve it and trust eachother again? Thank you.