Hello everybody!

So i have something to vent about, a family situation that has gotten me deep in my feelings.

My older brother has recently gotten engaged to his girlfriend of a year, which is great we are all very happy and very excited for them. But that is not what made me feel the way that I feel.

This weekend its going to be the oficial or traditional should I say event where my parents will ask for her hand in marriage. Which again its fine, exciting and all, but my issue or not really an issue more like where ny feelings got a little bit hurt is that my brother and parents have told me that mu boyfriend of 5 years is not invited, because is just family as they said. I know we are not married yet thats not in our plans just yet i get that, but hearing them say thar is hurtful. Because honestly if tje roles were reversed and it was my engagement and all of that I would be 100 percent okay with my brother bringin his girlfriend, because that is his person if he is with her is because he loves her and she loves him and that is enough. But i guess that is just me

Now mu question is, am I exagerating? Should my feelings be hurt?, Also how do I tell my boyfriend he is not coming, I dont want his feelings to be hurt either.

Any advice is appreciated!

Thank you!!