To start this off I want to say I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years now. We have a kid together and were in the process of finding an apartment to finally move in together. He has cheated on me in the past but he was such a kind hearted person and would do anything for anyone. I had forgiven him for the past.

He started a new job at travel centers of America and they’re paying really well. We had financial troubles before that, but it seemed like everything was turning up for us. The first month was great and I thought things were finally changing for us until something changed with him…

I noticed he had began to change and it wasn’t just with me. He was rude to me, my family, waitresses, cashiers… An entirely different person. I had asked what was going on and he ofc told me nothing.

Shortly after I found out he indeed was talking to a girl and I told him that I had caught him. However, this time was different than the others. It seemed like she genuinely was just a friend so I texted her and asked myself and it was true, but she was a huge bitch just all in all and I realized that this behavior had came from her.

This isn’t the big issue tho. Yesterday I tried to make a phone call and I got a prerecorded message saying my phone was shut off due to the bill not being paid.( he pays the bill) and as I said before he is making so much money now and I know for a fact we hadn’t been spending any money so we could afford the apartment. While he was asleep I grabbed his phone and did research trying to find anything out. I found emails of other payments to things that I was unaware of and honestly idek what they’re to. I then checked his messages only to see his papaw had blown up his phone asking why he didn’t make his car payment since his papaw was a co signer. (The messages from the other girl were deleted)

There’s so many other details I have but I’ve already made this so long. Idk what to do. I love and care about him so much and he’s never been like this the past 4 years. It was all so sudden