I have a friend that’s a single mom, looking for love. She’s been in and out of relationships for the past year or so. Every relationship she has, within the first month she already talks to him about marriage, expanding the family, getting a car together. Every guy. Usually these relationships are short lived. She has the mentality of “I have a dog, a kid, a house, all I need is a husband”. I understand the purpose of a relationship is to figure out if you want to get married or not. However isn’t a month in kind of early?

Anyway. I told her I’ve been trying for 8 cycles and kept it on the down low. My husband and I have been married for 5 years and we are ready. About two months later, she’s pregnant by “accident”. But she tracked everything on an app and had sex O-3, O-2, O-1, and ovulation day. No protection, no birth control. It bothers me she claims it’s an accident. It bothers me that she’s with a person she has complete moral differences with and believes she can change him.

And it was so easy for her. I’m just upset, jealous. I understand it’s her life to live and ultimately it’s none of my business.

I just can’t help but to feel sour. Especially after she volunteered an ultrasound scan. 👎🏻