I just need some opinions from my fellow women. It’s not about periods it’s about relationships.

Ladies, if a man talks sexual or heavily flirts via text, messenger etc to other women is it considered cheating to you? And then his reasoning is bc you apparently don’t give him all your attention? We both work different hours and I try to give my attention to him but we have dogs that need to be cared for and a house to keep clean and I have a couple friends that I talk to every once in a while cause he gets upset when I text them when he is there. He leaves it to me to clean the house and handle the dogs 80% of the time. (He’s done this off an on the past two years of our four year relationship and also tried to plan sex with a girl on my birthday)