Ways to please your extremely sexual SO when you aren’tyou aren’t very sexual

How can I please my husband who is extremely sexual? I’m down to having sex here and there or getting played with her and there but he wants to do it like all day everyday! I get random messages from him during the day while I’m at work about how he wants to bang me. Or I can ask a simple question and he has to have some sexual response. But again he is one of those guys that is addicted to video games so he comes home from work and spend all evening on the computer then expects me to want to do something sexual with him when he comes to bed after I’ve been asleep for 3 hours.

What are ways you guys please your SO that isn’t in a sexual way?