I took a trip out to Miami to visit my cousins. My cousin had this guy friend she introduced me too. At the time my cousins were all encouraging me to leave my boyfriend, they didn’t think good of him because our relationship was struggling. They were trying to convince me to move permanently with them, they said they had a room I could rent and that they’d give me one of their cars as long as I took over the payments. It was like the best news I had ever heard, but I did and do love my bf and I was scared about possibly leaving him as I knew he wouldn’t move with me.

Anyway one of my cousins set up for me to go to a club with the guy friend while they went somewhere else. While at the club I got really drunk and my phone was stolen. The guy friend said that I could go to his house and use his computer for the “find my iPhone” feature. I trusted him because my cousin spoke highly of him. While I was on the computer he started touching me. I was pushing him off and telling him no. Then he threw me on the bed, my head was spinning and took my panties off and stuck his penis in. I literally just laid there.. dead. I didn’t move, I didn’t say anything.. I just stared at the wall. He eventually just stopped and then tried to be nice by putting my sandals on and getting me water. He was asking if I was ok and I didn’t respond. When I told my cousin what happened she said he’s not that kind of person and he wouldn’t do that. Is it rape even though I didn’t try to force him off?