Hi, so I’m 16 and my boyfriend and I decided we were going to have sex for the first time. I thought that in preparation, I would try and insert a finger or two before a whole penis. It won’t work. I get nervous and start feeling queasy before giving up entirely. I’ve tried lubricant and everything but nothing will work. It’s almost like It’s too tight to fit, or maybe Im just really stressed so it tenses. Does anyone have any tips, or at least similar experiences so I don’t feel so alone in this?