This may seem trivial, but I’m just looking for honest opinions. Advice needed.

I will start by saying my significant other and I both play softball. We play competitively and in leagues. We also play coed together competitively and in leagues as well. We have been together for a little over 2 years. I am 24, and he is 27. We don’t live with one another, i live with my parents and he lives with his. (I was divorced back in 2019 and i have a daughter from that marriage so I am living at home trying to get back on my feet and get out of the debt that my ex husband created).

So Wednesday night, I had my wisdom tooth pulled at an emergency dentist. They gave me no antibiotics, no pain medication, no nothing.

Thursday rolls around, a day where we’re both supposed to play in a league together. He told our coach that I would be out and that he was “in.” Well, my dentist sent me back to work on Thursday, but I got extremely lightheaded, dizzy, I was running a fever, and dry heaving. So I got sent home. I told him that I really wish he would come and be with me (as I had been alone all day) instead of going to softball (we have more than enough people on the team, they didn’t need him). He legitimately refused to come and be with me, even knowing that I was feeling absolutely horrible.

The type of person I am, he would never have to ask me to come and be with him if he was sick… I’d already be there, with all the medication and anything else he could possibly need. But not him…

Am I wrong for being incredibly hurt if after 2 years in, he refused to come and be by my side when I was expressing to him that I needed him? He was already aware that I left work and wasn’t feeling well AT ALL. He knew all of my symptoms and everything going on… I don’t know. It seems trivial. But at the end of the day, if my significant other refuses to come and be by my side when I’m expressing that I want/need him… I don’t think that’s a relationship that’s meant for me. I want my daughter and I to come first, the same way that he comes first to us.