Moving out ?

Question

How do people move out? How do they get over the separation anxiety from leaving their house/ mom? The feeling like you’re abandoning them and they’ll be all alone? Context- my moms a single mom, had a 3 bedroom house with yard and I do the yard work since we cannot afford a landscaper and I don’t want my mom to have a heat stroke. Boyfriend wants to move a state away, but I just don’t know how to leave my mom without thinking of all the bad stuff that’ll happen to her and I get really upset anytime I think of it. And he doesn’t seem willing to compromise on the staying in my state idea. 
I feel really lost. I don’t want to loose my mom, I don’t want anything to happen to her. I started getting really bad separation anxiety from her when covid hit.

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I had a different situation with moving 
I had no real relationship with my parents so I was excited to move
Moved out at 18 from SC to TX (not in tx anymore) and I’m 27 now and don’t regret it at all 😅

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If you want to move, then 100% do it! Your fear is completely normal, but don’t let that hold you back if this is something you want to do! I’m moving two states away (bf lives there, but also went to college there so made more sense for me to move) and as I keep taking stuff down I totally get overwhelmed and sad leaving my parents, but if you are ready and this is something you want to do then go for it! If your bf also treats you well and you feel comfortable, why not? You can’t take care of your mom forever and maybe if she gets older you can go back with him or she’ll come closer to you!

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I couldn’t leave my parents more than 45 min. My husband knew this when we met. That would be a dealbreaker for me