Stag Party

OH went on bachelors party at the weekend. Didn’t contact me, I was fine with that, I had sent a message to ask if he got there ok and how was the place they were at, I was told it was meant to incredible by someone else. Later that night I Sent him a picture of our baby in bed at her bedtime and said night night Dad. Then left it at that. I went on my messages to message someone else later in the evening and noticed he had read my messages and not bothered to reply. I just assume if you have your phone on you a simple quick message would be nice. He did call in the morning and I had said it would of been nice if he had just sent a simple message then he did later that day and called. The place they were staying was booked for an extra night and it was suggested by the party that myself and our baby went up and enjoyed the last night which he said sounded great and we would make a final decision in the morning as he would be home mid morning and could help pack and go back however if we decided not to go, I had errands to run and he was going to look after the baby. Mid morning came, nothing, no message and not home. I eventually found out that none of them had even been to sleep and had been partying on things all night and decided to continue drinking.

What I am annoyed the most about is, he knew he was taking something (which doesn’t bother me as it’s not a regular thing) so would of known at that point there was no way plans would stay the same. Why not message and explain that they wouldn’t be back at the planned time instead of me not even knowing what was happening. He eventually came home in no fit state to look after the baby either. He’s made me out to be the bad one in this situation where all his friends now think I’m crazy for suggesting he even went home. He had work today, responsibilities at home.

I went on my hen do and kept in touch, he messaged lots and I responded each time, he called a few times and I answered and also called him. I came home on Sunday sober as I knew I was back to being a mum the next day. He didn’t help and let me rest.

I feel like I’m an awful person!