Am I the asshole ?
My daughter turns 1 this Saturday. Her dad (my bf) used to come home and go into full dad mode, but lately almost a month ago he hasn’t been engaging with her AT ALL ! and goes straight to play video games. I used to not mind at all because he would help me, play and talk to her but lately he hasn’t really been engaging with her at all and idk what change. I’ve been telling him the past week to engage, talk and play with her and he gets angry. Today my daughter fell off the bed AGAIN. Because I turned around for less than a second to grab her wipes on the nightstand and she fell off. Last time she fell off she had a bruise on her face. I was very upset. I fell like asking him to to stay at his sisters for a week or two so he can think over what’s more important. I told him he’s beginning to get addicted to his game and not balancing spending time with his daughter and having his play time. He hasn’t done anything differently. I don’t know what to do. I’m with our daughter 24/7. I think if I ask him to leave he’ll have time to miss her and think about what’s more important because I’ve told him how I felt and he didn’t find a balance. She fell and he went straight back to his game. I’m at a point where I’d rather do it alone than be in a relationship and feel like I’m doing it alone. He’s here but his mind is not. He doesn’t want to break up??? I don’t understand . Please give advice…
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