Is it really cheating???

Elizabeth

So I recently went through my husband phone photo album looking for some candid pictures from our wedding. Instead I found some screen shots of him asking and paying for nudes and porn videos. I honestly feel so betrayed rn and I accused him of cheating but he argues that paying for porn isnt cheating. How would anyone else handle this? We've been trying a for a baby for almost 3 years now and I can't imagine life with out him.