WEIRD situation with friend… what is secretly going on?

I’ve been playing out this scenario over and over in my head wondering if I’m just overthinking it or it’s weird. Let me hear your thoughts.

So my friend asked if she could come over with her kids for a play date on Sunday. I said sure, I wasn’t doing anything and my husband was away on a work trip. She asked if we could have dinner together. I was like sure, what do y’all want? She told me spaghetti because all the kids like it. I said sure, that’s easy to make and my kids love it too.

So Sunday arrives and they come over around noon… but for some reason, her husband was with her. Now she cannot drive for various reasons but I figured he’d just drop her off since we don’t live far from one another. No, he came inside my house and plopped down on my couch. Got out his laptop and started playing Minecraft. I was like okay… that’s weird thing number 1. The kids play most of the day and then around 5 I started making spaghetti. At dinner everyone sits and down and eats. My friend and her husband make themselves massive plates of spaghetti. My friend just kinda picks at it. Now keep in mind I’m not a bad cook. I was an executive chef for many years. Her husband eats a whole plate but then I hear him complaining to her “I’m still hungry.” She was like “we have leftover burgers at home you can eat later.” He then asks me if I have any thousand island dressing. I was like “um no why?” And he says he wants to put it in the spaghetti and have more. I then hear him complain to my friend again that I don’t have any of this dressing. My friend eats like three bites and leaves this heaping pile of spaghetti on the table, she barely ate any of it but made herself this giant plate.

An hour or so passes, the kids are all full and ate well. I find her and her husband in my fridge. He’s eating random slices of cheese and she is eating this leftover chicken and rice I had COLD. She sees me and is embarrassed and was like “okay well I think we better go!” They pack up their things and leave. I haven’t really heard from her since BUT she asked if they could come over again this coming Saturday!!

I’m replaying everything like… does my spaghetti suck ass or was this just weird? I mean I think my spaghetti is bomb and I make it just like I did in the restaurant industry. Was this not weird…? What do you think is secretly going on? I feel like I’m not being told everything and there was another reason they want to come over and eat.