Someone pls help

So every time I shave my vag area and ESPECIALLY my bikini line, I get horrible horrible shaving bumps and burns. I’ve tried literally everything, I shave in the right direction, I exfoliate, I moisturise, I use a really recommended shaving burn ointment but still nothing. I’ve tried waxing but the same thing happens. And now i currently have the worst sore I’ve ever gotten and it’s bleeding and literally hurts to walk. Laser is not an option yet, but pls share any tips or advice!