I love my husband, I do, but he's never been very connected with his emotions. He's also never been really good at expressing himself about them. We just found out last weekend that were unexpectedly expecting (we're 4w1d now) and of course, we're both scared sh*tless! We planned on waiting a few more years but things happen. I asked him on Saturday if I could start talking to him about what's going through my mind about the whole thing and he said to give him more time, that he's still trying to process the news. Fine. It's Wednesday, and I've been really uncomfortable at night. I've been wanting to talk to him about it so I asked him this morning how he was doing and if he was in a better place to talk about it yet. Typical  him, he gets a little snappy saying "there's nothing to talk about. Things haven't changed yet! Yes, this is happening but what is there to talk about his early?" Right there, I know he's not ready yet. I always try to let these things slide with him because I know with some time, he'll come back and apologize and want to hear me out. He's never been good with talking about things initially. So I tell him, "you're right. There's nothing to talk about yet." And of course he asks what's on my mind? What did I want to talk about? I tell him nothing. I know him. Sure he's asking, but he still doesn't want to hear it yet. Now he's irritated that I won't talk to him about it. Ugh! He's such a guy sometimes! It's really annoying right now.