New to Secondary Infertility

I’m trying not to feel like a pretender by jointing this group, let alone posting. My husband and I got the green light from my IBD specialist (I have UC) to start trying in November 2021. We’ve tried for 9 cycles and had one miscarriage (chemical at 5 weeks) over Easter. My husband and I have an age difference. According to my age, I’ve got until November before I should see a specialist. According to his age, we should go now.

I’m tracking with bbt and OPKs. I’ve been on a prenatal vitamin since October of 2021. I just started the Fertility Supplement Conceive through PreMama. I’ve cut way back on my caffeine, I only drink when I’ve got my period, I have a healthy BMI, and walk for exercise. If we don’t hit ovulation with BD, we always got the before and after ovulation day. If we don’t conceive this month, my husband has agreed to go on a fertility supplement as well.

Anything else we can be doing? How do you all remain positive?