Not sure how to take this?

So at work this morning my cousin and I were talking about my friend whose preg and my cousin goes “your moms gonna kill you when you get pregnant “ and I said why and she says well your just not ready.. I said why I’m 25 I have my own car and house ? And she says well your just not ready I was like well you had your kids at 20? You weren’t ready. Whose ever 100% ready? And she’s like well I had help from BD’s family you have no support.

Like I already knew my side of the family wouldn’t help I didn’t expect any but like was she trying to be rude or like a rub it in my face type of way? She didn’t seem like it it did kind of hurt my feelings though. We’ve been ttc for 2 yrs and she knows that we’re trying just hasn’t known how long

What’s y’all’s thoughts?